Well I followed this a little, seein as how i use to flame with/on *****, and had been waitin to read her story. I got about five sentences into it and thought why do people put themselves through crap like this? Why do I? Get all riled up about something that is going to do nothing xcept bruise your psychi. Go to far with it and you end up like Ryan or worse, like her. Tom Lycos has gotten rich off it--inciting war within ourselves.
I went round and round with her everyday. I feel I was a large part of her stopping her own BB. Hitting on Ryan's galfriend, man that was classic. But I found that, even after burning her,there wasnt that feeling of any accomplishment, just knowledge that we would both do it again. No satisfaction. You guys with the time go ahead, plunge right in. You are doing yourselves more harm then good. No peace will evolve in you from this. We (humans) seem to like it this way.

Fishing Ted/Bud/