Eric,

The key is having fun and enjoying your time on the river. If the guy you're fishing with puts a damper on your good time, for WHATEVER reason, then it's time to find a new fishing partner.

If fishing with somebody that bonks nates bums you out, then don't fish with them. It's their choice whether or not to bonk, and it's your choice whether or not to take part.

The "lead by example" suggestion was right on target. It doesn't always work, but it is more effective than berating someone.
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She was standin' alone over by the juke box, like she'd something to sell.
I said "baby, what's the goin' price?" She told me to go to hell.

Bon Scott - Shot Down in Flames