Damned Berkeley boy. You painted my story. LOL. BUT, my ex said she loved to fish (which, found out meant going to pay to fish ponds to catch trout). She had no want to sit in a boat, or fish when it was cold. But I've been there. Need to take you out for a beer. Hope your divorce goes better then mine did. Luckily, I got the truck, house, and kids. But the hell I went through to get it was the bad part.