That would be like wife swapping!

I was partners in a boat once. The guy dissapeared for 12 years never called or inquired about the boat. Called one day and wanted me to cash him out at half the blue book which was way more than the market value of the boat. I paid him and considered it a cheap way to get rid of the guy .

Good luck with your search its a good idea but the reality is unkown until it's too late!