Aunty M I didn't mean any offence at all. I think what you'll find is that What Christ and his Apostles taught is a very far cry from what you see in the lives of thoes who claim to be christians. My point is about what God teaches vs what the church does.
Men and women both are sinful and need of redemption and once death takes us there is no distinction between the sexes. The bible and history are full of examples of men dropping the ball and women picking it up and running with it.
Jesus to my recollection never gave specific commands for how women and men were supposed to behave differently. Paul only said that he didn't allow women to teach or have authority over a man, and in fact had on numerous occasions great things to say about women who were faithfully doing Gods work.

again my point was the difference between what God says and what people do.

On the other hand there is a law in the books in Montana that a woman cannot fish alone on Sundays.