Dude.....run. I've been through this. When the tune changes every three days,beware. Protect yourself and do what's right for you. Be an upstanding guy and don't bang any chicks until the process is well underway. let her talk to your lawyer. She wants to be friends? Fine if that's tru she'll give you guys some space to sort things out. I found,for me that it was helpful to spend some time away from here and put distance between myself and the marriage.And hide your loomis rods.