Drama doesn't just "happen". All I know of you is from what I read on this board, maybe in real life you are more mature than you appear on here. My advice is to get some education on the how's and why's of relationships---- why they work and why they fail. It seems that you are missing some key elements to be able to make things work.
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would the boy you were be proud of the man you are

Growing old ain't for wimps
Lonnie Gane