According to some of my family members it is still that way in Oklahoma. My Granny always b!tched to me about my Grandpa's (RIP) family. She would say "Those goddamned stupid Okies! You wouldn't believe what the women would do down there. Now Ryan, I ain't sh!ttin' ya. We would make the men a big dinner Fried Chicken, Fried Ocra, Fried taters, gravy, dirt beans, corn bread, etc. and then we would stand in the kitchen and wait while those c0cksuckers ate their dinner and then their pie, and SMOKED THEIR GODDAMNED CIGARRETTES! Then, when they finally farted their way off to the back porch to drink we could sit down and eat the cold leftovers, and do the dishes. I told my mother in law she was crazy to do all that and she told me I would go to hell for thinking that way! Now Ryan, don't you treat your wife that way or I'll put a whuppin' on you!"

I can hear her giving me that speech now. I try to ask her about that about once a year, every time she gives me that speech I LMAO, she gets so riled up about it.

Is that kind of what you're talking about AuntyM? If so I'm all for it, it is too late for me, but maybe one of you other guys can find a girl who agrees it is her job to make herself happy and her man happy. My wife was raised wrong I guess, just another reason my mother-in-law sucks.