Listen, laugh, love and support her....she needs you.

Be there for her....and ignore all the BS about being tough. Cry, hug, support and love her....JUST be there for the stories with the family.

Not knowing the family dynamics I'll step out on a limb and suggest that you also be there (as uncomfortable as it is) for the family grieveing process. Be by her side and be a silent support for her and hers'.
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