I have spent alot of time reading this BB without joining, cause grumpyr is already on, but this time I had to join in. If you are having a hard time finding a gal who likes to fish, find one that doesn't mind if you do. Trust me, we are out there. After being married to an avid fisher/hunter for 21+ years, I am going to learn salmon fishing this year. In all the years, I have spent almost every birthday alone because I was born during opening week of deer season. I accept this because I married an outdoorsman. In fact, I often encourage him to go fishing because it makes him happy. But, on the other hand, you have to be willing to give some too. Don't whine when she wants to go do something she considers fun. That way you both win.