Merg, as you grow up you'll learn that, just as with fishing, the older you get quality becomes more important than quantity.

I've seen the pics you post of women and I haven't seen one I'd be remotely interested in. They all look like ditsy airheads who spend life in front of the mirror and hanging out with arrogant losers. Can't do anything because they might break a nail or mess their hair up. I can hear them now "as if" "it's like" "he drives a porsch" "ewwww" "awesome"......these women are why alcohol was invented.

Salmo G.


wow.....you are a very...very learned man. i would be interested just to go fishin one time with you or something. not many people get around to broadening their horizens to physcology and books that deal with physcological issues ( pertaining to men and women) and beyond.

if i remember right, you have a degree in a few things? besides life

not trying to sell anything. just trying to challenge other men to not settle for anything, beleive in yourself and what you do.


"Those with any brains are no longer interested in jerks, or witty cocky funny guys like yourself. The brainless ones take longer to mature, not unexpectedly.


hmmmm that is hard to determine. Deangelo....and ...hmmm cant recall his name ..wrote "the ellusive obvious" says that the character changes.....but the drives that drive us....do not. they just change a little. Deangelo interviews many men into their mid 30's that still are out doing it.

what they say is that it just takes a different approach, when you go for smarter more mature women you also have to step up. tone down. whatever. the issue being....are you acting like you? or decieving someone into thinking thats you?

True....i am not as successful with older women as i am with younger women. Being as i am high energy, intelligent, funny. i have only found one woman in my life that can compare. most peopel are just not that into life, adventerous, outgoing as i am. so obviously my field of women that i can narrow down to the "good ones' is a VERY small field indeed. i will say though that i have done it.....its harder and requires more of my time....and it requires me to act someone i am not.....but it can be done....and if i felt like acting "not me" i could date all the older smarter, fun women i want.


but not as successful. because anytime you dont act like you....people know it.....it just wont work as well. plays back into believing in what you beleive in more than the other person.


the thing about is ...besides it not beign the point of this post.....i dont worry about it...at all.... i dont really care. theres plenty of women out there....i have plenty of time. i can be as picky or as choosy as i want. what do i care how long it takes?? i have all the time in the world. I now have an AMAZING, gorgeous, fun, funny, spontaneous, straightforward, no nonsense kind of girl. one of a kind...in looks....in personality....in everything. I have never even come close to finding this kind of caliber of woman that is responsible, has values morals that she absolutely sticks to. is reasonable. but is still a sensitive women its awesome.

i dont think women are trouble at all. i think its all mindset, you have to be willing to comprimise but still stand up for what you beleive in and what your about. just be reasonable, and caring.


they are as much trouble as you let them. why would they be any less trouble then us men already get into? i think men are just a lot more selfish then women and its hard for them to sacrifice anything, or put themselves in other peoples shoes.

anyway. this conversation is awesome. Salmo G. i am still in a little bit awe of how broad your knowledge is.

hahahaha i never said that those were quality women. EVER. those words did not leave my mouth. You described them exactly as they really are. Thats why they are on those pictures. no girl i date is ever in pictures like that. hahaha thats not quality...thats quantity. meeting women worth your while is a lengthy process of weeding out all the thousands of daddy issue, insecure, stuck up, moronic, women. but.....men have jsut the same amount of stupid, selfish , buttholes, as women. hahahah its all in where your at in life....have you started to deal with the emotional issues you carry around? or are you still blaming everything on everyone else still?

Gee Merg, I didn't think anyone as self confident as you could be in awe of anyone, even yourself, given the way you come across on this internet BB. I think I gave you a bit of grief a while back for some of your hyperactive proclivities, meaning no harm really, but your internet persona is more hyper than the energizer bunny, hahahahahahaha. I get the feeling you're a pretty good kid, and VHawk seems to like you, and you probably are more worldly than most of your age group peers.

Yeah, at this point my degree in life is more valuable to me than my degree in biology. Take care and have fun with your bikini fishing derby.

Sincerely,

Salmo g.

Merg, turn out the lights and they're all "Eye Candy"

Chicks definately go though stages of needing to "redefine" themselves as they mature, and if you're the guy sweeping her chimney when she shifts gears, you are history.

Merg: Your GF looks hot, and by hot I mean a high maintenance pain-in-the-ass. Fuc% a hundred more like her, find one you can deal with on a long-term basis, marry her and have kids, enter middle-age and deal with real life shi%, and if you're still with her then regail us with your phylosophy on women.

BTW: Human monogomy is a hoax. We do it, but it's not natural.

Sol, if you could do this, you could have any chick in the world!

I thought Sol could do that

I agree with Sol's last post...

About 8 in 10 people get divorced because they are following genuine human pathology compared to the 2 in 10 that choose to remain married. Like it or not.

This entire thread cracks me up...Merg, eventually you'll discover that scoring hot college chicks when you're 22 is just as easy, and just as fleeting and unimportant, as scoring hot high school chicks when you're 17.

There is not a woman under 30 that I have met that I would even call "a woman"...hell, they aren't even close to being a woman until they are 30.

You should print out this thread, and go back and read it in ten years...you'll be shaking your head at yourself just like every man over 30 is right now.

That being said, enjoy being a kid for what it is...just don't mistake it for being in any way similar to *real* life...the kind that lasts for decades, not months, or four semesters.

This post should not be titled "Men.....and why they suck at meeting women", it should be titled "Post-pubescent boys.....and why they suck at meeting young girls"...because the advice you are giving is for post-pubescent boys and 18-23 year old girls...it has nothing to do with "men" or "women"...

Fish on...

Todd

Yeah, well, I agree with No Fish's last post.

I don't agree with anyone's post. Even my own. I'm a rebel and I thrive on dissention!

Sol, are you counting my stats in these figures?

Living in a nuclear family is not exactly natural either. Sol, at least you could be grateful that we don't live in a matriarchal society where you'd have to go live with your mother-in-law when you got married!

True that, Aunty...true that.

Fish on...

Todd

So, Merg, be sure to let us know when you get booked on the talk show circuit, and all those lucrative book deals.

Picking up slutty women is not exactly something to be proud of..............after you have turned 21, and done it a few times, it's no big deal.

I'll go with Todd's post, in general............

In specific, this has given me a chuckle, listening to someone probably about half my age 'tell it like it is'.
I am guessing for many that read this, it is pretty much the same 'perspective'.

KK

In specific, this has given me a chuckle, listening to someone probably about half my age 'tell it like it is'.
I am guessing for many that read this, it is pretty much the same 'perspective'.

KK


This thread is hilarious!
Remember to bring those glasses. Those girls are going to think that you're the koolest The youth of today really know how to have a good time. Don't forget after having a few drinks, how to use your pink worm. A good rule of thumb is that the Pink worm matches well with Pink......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-prfAENSh2k

merg, you should save all of your posts and vault them. read them in 15 years and you will laugh your arse off. your reasonings will change in time. trust me merg you will settle for someone who is not your type now. eventually you will realise that that the real hotties are the ones your passing up now! read this post and others in above in 15 years and see what you actually married. looks fade and crash hard! find the gal who is focused on real life stuff and can focus on you as man. there's your girl.