I've always said, "Just get out and fish" If you do, you'll meet people who will show you places and things. I too have been victim of telling a story and having the traffic multiply the next week. If you want your favorite whole to stay secluded, you'll watch what you say as well. Post and learn about technique, but leave the where and when up to those to learn themselves. If they don't take the effort to explore and learn, then they don't reap the benefits of the spot.