"All religions get caught up in this type of drivel that detracts from what is really important. Being a good person is what I believe is paramount in all religions and I feel only one person needs to be satisfied with that... myself. I will face God willing if I believe I was a good person. Passing judgement on others for one reason or another is pointless."

I don't expect many to understand this but here it goes.
At least as far as christianity goes being a "good person" for one is completely impossible through any human effots and secondly is totally irrelevant. How you have lived your life has no bearing on your standing with God. The Bible teaches that man has relationship with God by grace alone. We have faith in going to heavan based on grace through faith and nothing else and i mean absolutely nothing else. According to the bible no amount of good living, good deeds or good charecter will get you into heaven. I can't speak for other religions but christianity is not based on trying to be a good person.
Also the bible is very clear that it doesn't matter what any particular person feels is right or important. When you develop your own idea of what God should be like, the bible calls that Idolatry. Thats when we make God in our image instead of us being made in His. anyway thats probably not the dicsiccion you wanted to have so i'll stop there.