My 70 year old Dad had Lung Cancer surgery three years ago. Had a lobe removed from his left lung. We nearly lost him a couple of times. Pretty much erased all the troubles we've had in the past, which were many. We didn't see too many things eye to eye. Both he and I are recovering Alcoholics with lots of baggage against each other. He's made a very remarkable recovery this year. Besides teaching me to fish, he also taught me how to ride a dirt bike at age 6. A love we both still share. He calls me a couple weeks ago and says "Let's load up bikes and head for the Arizona desert". I can't afford it financially, or vacation wise, but..... We leave Saturday!!! I've been given a second chance to know and love the man who brought me into this world, and I feel very blessed. I just have a short message for everyone who has a beef with a parent or any other family member. Love 'em now, while you have the chance. You may not get another.