The internet dating scene is so polarized. Guys like the Merg are out there carving notches in the headboards of their bed while good women become more narrowminded in their search for men as a result. It's a rediculous medium for a precieved intent, and perceptions vary. Give me the choice between hot sex with 10 beautiful women, each in a one night stand situation and hot sex with one beautiful woman that I have feelings for and I'll take the later in a heartbeat, because sex is best with someone who you care about. That's not to say that marriage is a good idea. True friends do not need a contract. \:\)