Sounds like everone has some good arguments for both sides. I don't really think one grade level at a young age makes much diffrence. If you move her up she will probably adjust fairly quickly as kids do. Some times you have to look at you kid and decide what would be best for them. If she likes being challenged i would move her up a grade before she gets bored and stops trying to learn. My experiance is the other way my oldest son has ADD. after first grade them wanted to move him on to second and put him in special classed. We talked with the school and his doctors and they wanted to put him on medication and move him on. We are very hesitante to put him on medication so we faught with the school to hold him back and last year he really started dealing with his ADD on his own and passed without medication or special classes. I really think we did the right thing we will find out this year so far he is doing good in second grade.

just my 2 cents