Two years ago today my divorce was final, two awesome little kids involved and it crushed me to not be there with them every night much less the financial beating I took. It still hurts not tucking em in, having dinner etc... but time helps along with getting involved coaching their teams, parent teaching in kindergarten with my daughter(thats a crazy hard gig, all kindergarten teachers in the world should get an immediate raise)...good luck bro its all for the best in the long-run and thats why I finally did it. Cheers