Well Tim, congrats the deal is done. At some point down the line we will sit on the beach up on the island and discuss how life continues to improve as time passes. Mark my words the improvements are not modest and nearly instantaneous. Good luck with maintaining a cordial relationship with your ex. I communicate with mine via attorney only still.. I have been divorced for I think close to a decade and I would say the last ten years have been the best of my life. Go and enjoy it...And it appears I missed yet another party on Whidbey......... Im asleep at 10:30 anyway