Most all labs are good ones but there are those that are naturals and just live to make your life beter. I made the mistake of switching to a female this time for my daughter's sake and it just aint the same. She is a great dog don't get me wrong and spend half of my work days with me but is just not my old buddy. Try to find a pair you really like with the same personalities as your last and wait for a pup. Don't let price have anything to do with your choice(after all whats a few hundred bucks over 10-14 years for a close friend) Stay with the male if thats what you like and I am sure you will be rewarded. Even if he is half the dog of your old one it is still worth it. Sorry for your loss and happy hunting...Art