Just got into a new ford F-150 supercrew lariat 4x4 with all the bells and whistles.

Looking for mod suggestions, pros and cons...what not to do etc. I want to set it up right. But I also dont want to go to far because it will spend 95% of its time on the hiway.

My ideas are as follows. In order of importance.

Procomp 4-6 inch lift with bilstien shocks.
31.5 or maybe 33 inch BFGs on 17 inch black wheels. (hate cleaning aluminum)

Programmer/perf chip. No idea which product to look at.
Cold air intake. Thinking K&N but Ive heard theres better for the same $$
Flowmaster dual exhaust.
Maybe Gibson stainless performance headers? (overkill?)
Tranny cooler? ( do a lot of towing in the Mt passes)
High volume oil pan?
Line X the wheel-wells.