i really hope everything works out for you...my only advice would be to make sure if she has lost weight or got a new haircutt or dolled herself up, differently she is deff looking for more attetion...after all most of us are attention whores...ill admit i fall for that kind of stuff quick...and if you dont give her enough she will find it somewhere else...hate to say it but usually when a woman says she is not happy, she is finding it somewhere else..35 yrs is no where what ive ever done but tony and i are just a few years into it, but we do everything together...except he plays in the sheds here and i play mafia wars...hahahah