you have to understand that no MATTER WHAT...if you are looking for an attractive women....they get hit on, approached, talked to by men.....about 200 times a day. ....beleive me i know...i have a girlfriend



she is the nicest girl. awesome. but i have watched her turn guys down frequently. its like 100 times a day. its nothing for her . she doesnt even think about it. so if your trying to hang out with her and just see if she's even "your" kind of material...you have to have a very different mindset and approach then every other guy. so do the opposite of everything oyu have ever learned or thought about women and you will do just fine : )

make fun of her in a playful FUN and FUNNY way.

cocky funny

borderline arrogant...but arrogance is a false sense of confidence. NEVER BE AROGANT
just be a little cocky BUT always in a funny way.

that girls ass is HUGE
turns into

"j.Lo is in the house"

its funny.

be comfortable.

the one thing i worry about what you said is...never treat a women anything other than you would want ot be treated. that being said...everything i have said...you would love to be treated like that. its fun...ambiguious...flirty...not sure whats going to happen next...different...entertaining.....but always with respect. just like you would want.

Merg, more power to you, but I've been a woman a good long time. I know what they think they want and I know what they really need when it comes to men. I can spot the good men a long way off.

Chasing the arm candy for fun is fine. But if you get serious, be prepared to lose. Lose a house, lose your income, lose your kids.

This is the state of Washington. If you are a man, BEND OVER.

I think B-Run's quote from years ago fits this thread nicely. I believe it goes something like:

"No matter how hot she is, there's some guy out there who's sick of her sh!t" ... or something like that?

Thanks for the advice Merg... I'll try to put it to good use! But at 44... them young twentysomething girls just don't seem to respond to me the way they used to?

Merg,
Your advice doesn't go well here as most of the readers are not in the same position as you. Since this is a fishing board, I will put this in fishing terms. Most of us have taken our possession limit. Any additional attempts to fish, even catch and release, could result in serious fines. Those in that are still fishing, do not have as fresh as bait as you do.

You may enjoy catch an release, but there are some problems with continuing this over the long run (I won't go into the moral objects to this, though if some people are right you may pay dearly for this in the end).
First of all, as your bait gets older, you will not catch as many as you have in the past. The ones you do catch, will definitely not be of high quality and will cut horribably. Most of the quality fish will have already been taken by other fisherman. Agian, while new fish may move be available, they will not take your bait unless you are lucky enough to suppliment it with very expense additives.
As you get older, be careful. As some of the older members here may tell you, there are a lot of down river brights that become extremely agressive as you get older. Avoid these at all costs. They cut horribably and are not worth possessing.
On another note, I noticed that you seem to imply that you like to try to catch multiples. These may be fun to catch and release but while they may appear to like your bait, they most likely are cannilbalistic. If you try to take these home they most likely are more interested in eating each other and leaving you hungry.

If you are smart enough to realize that you should take your possession limit and quit fishing, be extremely carefull. Treated badly, your catch could go bad quickly. If you chose wisely and treat it right, your catch can last you a lifetime.

Words of wisdom from Krijack..Take heed, ass, oops I mean grasshopper!

Hahahaahahhha.......I am amazed that I made it this long without that info. Three kids later and the Merg gives me love advice.........thanks kid ....but chicks like you post are a dime a dozen (but still hot) we've all had 'em then married for content. (too be continnued)

Find a soul mate and you'll chill out.

Just check for an adams apple. Hahahhah.

Thanks for the helpful try.

thats whats funny. its hard to understand as a woman....but all of the physcology...literally thousands of women i have talked to and interacted with...... women do not have a choice in the attraction department. i could show you any time of the week. pick any woman ( thats single, just because i dont wreck homes but i used to just go after taken women in my bastard days)

anywhere. i can establish an attraction with her. its all about your frame of mind and how you come across.

why do women ( 99%) of the time stay with men that beat them???

or treat them like crap??

or pick the wrong "bad boy" type ALL THE TIME????

ever notice beautiful women......with the goofiest lookin dudes??

dont see to many good lookin guys with ugly women.

theres a whole slew of physcology behind it. once you learn about how the interaction goes...and you have the confidence to pull it off....

this is years....Years ...of beating the streets...reading books....hahaha testing stuff out on women. wonce you get it though. its amazing. theres a game going on. No matter who you are, how old you are...there is an interaction "game" so to speak , going on between a man and a woman when they interact on that level.

guys: you ever been talking to a woman....its goin along jsut fine...your thinkin your doin ok...then ...bam....you get this weird vibe like......i think its done...i think i just lost it??? but you dont know why.....or she all of a sudden wont return your calls?? or acts a little weird around you?? its all that physcology that goes with interacting with the opposite sex. you missed something and it basically just hosed you


thank god women can be attracted no matter what you look like because that enables ANY guy to go interact and establish an attraction with ANY women he chooses. ANY!!!!!!

men are totally different. 90% is if we are attracted to the "looks" of a woman. We are all visual. But......thats visually stimulating in our OWN minds. society pushes most men to think that super skinny model types are the way to go. but taste differs. it would have to for the human race to go on. But fit looking women will always be attractive to men because of the fact that , taht is a desireable trait in any mate. visual stimulation. Women are 90% personality stimulation


i have a fat bald friend about 210 lbs 5' 8" .....this man dates some of the hottest women i have ever seen. most of them ...yes...arm candy. but after you date the idiots for awhile you start to narrow down your standards....your morals....and your values. you start being able to get VERy picky.

he finally found one of the most amazing women i have met in my day...drop dead gorgeous....smart....bachelors degree.

no no no i know most of you are older....i was starting this as a vent. mostly i think that 99% of guys under sell themselves.

no offense Krijack.....i think what you said there is underselling yourself. I want the best for myself. the smartest, most attractive women i can find. Dont i deserve that? why do i have to settle.....? I will put it to any man who is unhappy....to not settle for ANYTHING!!! It just angers me when i see men just saying "oh well"


yes i realize most of you are married or taken...whcih makes this an interesting conversation.

but at the same time i wasnt just talking about women.

these days i have seen alot of men just settle...for this job.....for that women, for whatever reason.....for this lifestyle.....its like ... gosh...very frustrating.


my generation has it worse because of the way kids are gettign treated these days and the quality of the parents raising them


i was just venting...alot of it stems from the fact that i see alot of men ( some of my friends) settle for a women because they Crave that companionship.....or they feel alone. they settle because they just give up on meeting "the one" blehhhh makes me puke in my shorts.

have a nice day guys.

three kids!! you are an animal. write a book man! i would love to read it. anybody that can raise more than two is a legend in my mind

Do you have anything in a low-rise, mesh.........bikini if possible?

I think I just figured it out.
Merg is T.K.s illigitimate spawn!

"I reject your reality and substitute my own"

beautiful sig. my friend


if theres anything worth pondering and absorbing this line right here will change your life. saeems so inconsequential doesnt it???

i will tell you in life....you can convince...or do anything to anyone , anytime you want if you beleive what you believe....more than the other person.

"your in my reality now..."

i have boggled peoples minds with this. If you truly beleive this....it will come out in your behavoir. This is a powerful physcological tool. If you keep the frame of mind that your reality bubble surrounds you, and that any one that steps in it is in your reality.....wow.....i have seen and done some crazy things with this. you just smile and know that anyone in your bubble is subject to your reality.....whew...i get a boner just thinkin about it. thats how i have gotten every job i have had....every girl i have ever met ( in the last three years) all the cars i have ever bought ( many) every deal i have ever walked into. its absolutely amazing. i learned it from a physcologist. amoung other techniques and excercises .

Years, Years of beating the ...what?

LOL, great thread!

If this is going to be your lifes work you've got a great start.

Somehow I've gotten into the groove as board bachelor here, and I've had a fair amount of fun poking fun at myself along with the rest of these characters, trust me.....at 45 I'm thinking more along the lines of auntyM's way of thinking, a bit of frollicking fun inbetween fish trips, it's surely not that hard to get laid these days, just a matter of what your willing to give up to get it.....your time? your money? dare I say Self Respect..?? I live under no illusions that I will ever pull the pussy that you're getting....but trust me here, I aint dead yet...... and i don't fish every weekend!

I raised my kids (solo i might add), I really don't feel the need to go through it again, especially raising someone elses kids, and all those little chickadees that you keep us so posted on are great fun to look at....but that right there is a whole lot more trouble than most of us are looking for.

I'm not real sure what you're trying to sell here? My advice to you is, go out and have fun on your own terms and let the chips fall where they may, let the man in your pants run the show....for now, with time my guess is chasing down the chicks just maybe won't be quite the priority for you in a few years that it is now.

Keep on keepin' on Merg!

stam

i think i'll stick to that first stage right now!! haha i'm diggin it

The Merg's prowess with the ladies(and I use the term loosely) seems to be nothing more than ego stroking for himself... Be careful, the lure of easy women also has a consequence which you may or may not be prepared to deal with..Beware of dirty clams...

Merg,

I think Deangelo is described in "The Game." He was a student who became a top gamer and began teaching it.

Your strategy is right on for girls in your age group. By the time they're in their late 30s, with kids and divorced, what they're looking for in a man changes significantly. Those with any brains are no longer interested in jerks, or witty cocky funny guys like yourself. The brainless ones take longer to mature, not unexpectedly.

I just hope Merg gets this out of his system BEFORE he gets attached. If not, he will surely ruin some lives.

And Stam, I don't care what anybody says, you deserve only the best.