Originally Posted By: Salmo g.


Sure, let's discuss it ". . . as a philosophical issue that is more about morality, responsibility, integrity and before the fact."

Morality is a human construct. It is whatever a community of people decide it is. You may believe that sex outside of marriage is immoral, but the facts suggest that a majority of people either don't believe it's immoral or don't care. And that includes a large percentage, perhaps a majority even, of church going alleged Christians. Bringing God and the Bible into the conversation is just silly because many people don't believe in that God or the Bible or choose to give both low station in their lives. Personally I regard religion as irrelevant to the discussion.

The scientist in me tells me that sex is a biological imperative, not a religious one. So pragmatically speaking, let's set this morality, God, and the Bible aside since even the people who preach it don't act it, except possibly Mike Pence. And sex largely for the purpose of procreation? Who are you trying to kid? Have you been living under a rock? I don't know about you, but most men and women engage in sex for sport. And I don't mean that in a negative way. Among humans sex is part of an intimate emotional connection. It definitely serves a purpose other than procreation; it is indulgent, but it's only reckless, irresponsible, and ignorant when practiced outside that emotional connection.

Abstinence is the best solution only if you deny that humans are sexual beings. Sex education is a good idea because stupid puritans don't inform their kids and then act surprised or get mad when their kid either gets pregnant of gets someone else pregnant. Sex ed makes for fewer STDs and unwanted pregancies, but it doesn't prevent sex. Nothing does. Deliberately ignorant puritans refuse to get it. People have sex, always have, always will. Accept the reality and decide how to live in that reality instead of dwelling in denialism.

Having an abortion may be doubling down on a bad choice in your case, but others see it as a logical course of action to an unwanted or dangerous pregnancy. I know my place in this arrangement, and it's not to judge another's personal decision in such a personal matter. Apparently you have the right to dictate how others, particularly women, should behave. News flash: you don't!

I too like a society where people take individual responsibility. I see the decision to have an abortion as a person exercising just that - personal responsibility.

I'll grant you that white men founded this country. Most weren't old. And the conservatives were the Tories, many of whom moved to Canada rather than be part of a revolution. Rebelling against the King is the direct opposite of conservative. (Conservative: resists change; slow to change.) And the Founders should have, and did have a say in the bedrock policies of the country. They also recognized the inevitability of change, and allowed for that. So that was then, and this is now. Women have been demanding equal rights at law for over a hundred years. Men, being the stingy bastards that they are, along with a lot of duped women, have resisted that change.

And just to be clear, it's stupidly offense to accuse me of wanting to control women's bodies to maximize their sexual value for me and other men to abuse. Talk about an unfounded cheap shot. Welcome to being a modern Republican for whom there is no bar too low that you won't cross it.




Sure let’s discuss.

The Bible and God are relevant to the discussion as it relates to being a framework for having constraint on human behaviors. I believe at one point Fish Prince discussed man’s innate urges to eat, fvck, and kill. The most selfish of people deny this aspect within humans. The best and most pure method of constraint on man’s urges is laid out in the Bible. Whatever worldly method you employ (if any at all) will ultimately fall short.

Sex is largely for the purposes of procreation but also for enjoyment. Biblical parameters are set around this by saying it should be between a married couple to offer protections for potential offspring and emotional protection by maintaining fidelity and bypassing the complexities of emotions that come with having multiple partners, affairs, etc. As stated previously, women (and most men) who have/had multiple partners are also more likely to suffer from mental health issues. Biblical framework around sexuality offers a variety of protections. I agree with your statement about sex for enjoyment (which is also sometimes okay) but as also being indulgent and often times reckless, but I take it further than just outside of emotional human connection and place it within marriage that offers more layers of stability and protection. Do you walk around and fvck every woman you have an emotional connection with? Most women (and men) in a committed relationship would not be okay with this. If by any chance you think polyamory or open relationships can work, ask Toff how that’s working for him.

Also, I wouldn’t assume that terminating a pregnancy is the responsible route. In most cases, it’s a denied opportunity for adopting responsibility which is what’s needed in those situations. Adopting responsibility is what makes people grow and also brings meaning and purpose to their lives to make better and more informed choices. Want to have sex? Adopt responsibility and settle down instead of opting for the low and convenient parameters by cheap protections and worldly societal standards.

However, coupled with this idea is man’s obligation to also help and serve others who are in need. There are resources out there for pregnant women, and I also encourage helping others in the ways that we can with the talents and gifts we are blessed with. I can take some pride in knowing that I back up my beliefs with actions consistent to my idea. I encourage others to do the same.

As far as the cheap shot, it’s the dark side. You probably don’t believe the straw man I threw your way, but lots of (mostly leftist) men do and men who encourage sexual promiscuity are terrible people. The comment is more directed at your team encouraging the idea than you personally, but maybe the show fits.


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