Sounds like you've got it covered, Wes. And FWIW, Papafsh has it right on the money from my perspective. It also sounds like you see it that way too.

And for you guys confusing sexual preference with gender identity, there actually WAS a story a while back about a lesbian trapped in a man's body. I MEAN it! A male (physically), that liked girls, but had a sex change because he/she knew he/she was meant to be a women. Go figure.