Indeed our thoughts are with you. Illnesses to infants are tough on everyone.

RSV is nothing more than a cold virus, but it can be very dangerous to infants. It is also very common. You and I could have RSV at this very moment, and think we have nothing more than a minor cold.

RSV can also be very dangerous to adults with immune system disorders. I spent three weeks in January sitting by my mother's bedside in a Denver hospital while she was on a ventilator. She had initially become ill with the flu, and then came down with pneumonia. She was admitted to the hospital, but despite their best efforts, she came within hours of passing away. In a last ditch effort, the docs tested for RSV and found that she did have it. The diagnosis gave them a better handle on how to set the ventilator, and they managed to turn her vitals around. She's back home now, but still has months of PT ahead of her.

Anyway, best of luck to you and your family. Many of us can identify with what you have gone through.