"As far as I am concerned any 'gay' male can marry any gay or normal female and have the same rights as anybody else. And versa visa too. "

That's what I would like to believe, that they are treated equally. I don't think they should be given a 5% government handicap for bids like women and minority business or veterans. I'm not looking to give them an extra tax break for alternative lifestyle. Those are special previledges, not rights, to address disadvantages or as a reward for answering the call to duty. Exclusion for not being "like" everyone else, though, just isn't fitting for a tolerant nation.