Hey Cohofshr. Lighten up. I think the comments made by the other guys are nothing but a way of creating some humor. You left yourself wide open for some comical potshots. Your skin needs to get a little thicker if you're taking stuff like that to heart. What are you going to do when someone really flames you?

I would also suggest Mexico or Baja. Your idea of warm and her idea of warm may be different things. Saltwater fishing is a hoot. The fish are strong and it's tough to beat the weather. I know my wife would be rather be sipping a Corona in the sun while catching a wahoo or dorado, then curled up next to a sunflower heater in a pi*s down pouring rain in 40 degree weather. If you want her to go so bad, make it fun for her, and experience something new.

It's all good man. Take a deep breath and enjoy life.