mooch and every one else thanks for the advise. We are going to do the wedding at the chaple and then drive into friday habor for the dinner at the friday habor house restarant and stay at the hotel there. I got caught checking the tides for that day and its a no go. Her father fishes and I may talk him in to a charter trip the next monring as a wedding present if he can keep it a secret for his wife. prauy for us. also I have sent a letter to all family members that all toaste must be pre-submitted for approval for content to include language, truths, and family secrets.