always try to help out if someone needs it. AND THEY HAVE! I agree, patience is a must! [/QB][/QUOTE]
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You got it pal. I have probably been helped by you once or twice! (Thanks!) I always launch solo and sometimes a nice fella (like you) will grab my boat etc. Patience and tact are ALWAYS a main consideration when I'm at Redondo. My point was that after five trips back to the car by Mom and Dad, I am no longer being patient, I'm being abused. If A single guy can back in, untie from a trailer, launch (usually the beach is where I put it) and pull out within two-three minutes, even in the chop (Surf!?) then Mom and Dad can too.
Also, when it works right and we are all on the same page it is a beautiful dance of trailers, boats and cool folks.
I too am leary of approaching people about mis-ettiquette, but will occasionally offer friendly assistance and gently delivered advice (I never start arguements or act aggressive; If rebuked I smile and walk away!). Good point about the oblivious (whoever that was that said that) Many people are unconsciously incompetent, and it is quite an art to approach them, offer tactful advice and assistance, and not offend. Anyone can yell "hurry up dummy". We can all develop an ability to be nice. As a great fire chief once said "You don't HAVE to be nice; Just ACT like you are!
(Alan Brunicini of Phoenix Fire) Darn wise words there. If we all can live outside of our personal sphere of experience, by considering the other guy/gal, things go so much better (can you say synergy?).
Personally, I'm glad there are fellas like you guys out there. Solace is provided when I think the next trailer might be piloted by considerate and interesting people.