Merg...time for an attitude adjustment...you're slipping fast from "novel and interesting" into "boring and predictable"...and I can tell you this, you're going to save yourself a lot of pain and trouble in the future if you start realizing that you don't know chit, and aren't likely ever to until you stop "telling it like [you think] it is" and start listening to "how it actually is"...

Fish on...

Todd