"Hot girl at the Office can send your life into a downward spiral as well.. Fun at first "

Sometimes -I've seen this happen. The latest was the psycho a young stud knocked up and she had twins. He's really trying to do the right thing and be a good Dad but she breaks his cajones constantly.
I married the one I met at the office. 35 years later, she's still fun. So, things can work out with an office romance but it can turn ugly very quickly. I'm not sure I'd hit on my wife today at the office, given the change in the office climate.