...it all cooks down to that. You are pissed. Blah blah blah..

(Your "missprnts", "jumbled quotes", and "spelling" are in fact quite hard to see beyond in your opening paragraph. I'm sorry if I sound too critical but you come off like a foaming-at-the mouth dog if you can't take a few breaths and edit your own thread. This isn't a street fight where you can't take back what you say: read what you write and make sure it communicates your point. This is often a key element in MAKING a point.)