Originally Posted By: Snake Pliskin
The parents aren't on the same page on how to raise their children.


That's the biggie right there. How is a kid to be expected to maintain a level of acceptable behavior when their parents are not consist with their expectations? And, how is a person to be expected to perform as an adult when they wern't shown or required to perform basic expectations as a kid? They can't because they were not given the intelectual tools to do so.