Oregonian:

A word of advice, coming from a "chick" : You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar!

Just so there aren't suspicions of any "hidden agendas" related to this post, let me clarify. It is easier to persuade people if you use polite arguments than if you are confrontational.

If you want people to really take you seriously, STOP SLINGING SH!T.

For example:
"Deep breath KZ, count to ten, reread my posts on this thread without trying to find some hidden agenda (paranoia)."
and
"Wow. You must be under a lot of stress or something..."

What are you really trying to accomplish with attacking statements like that. If it is showing your true colors, then congrats! Success!

Sink or swim-
BEST OF LUCK TO YA!