I have a PM9, constant carry, never more than arms length away.
Very happy with it.
Thin, light, 6+1 cap.
I put a Hogue grip sleave on it for a little more purchase...carry with the 6-round mag that has the pinky extension.
Great piece.
I'll be shooting it at Renton this weekend.
You and your wife are welcome to try it.
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