Boo fricken hoo Salar, I will see your story and raise you one. My aunt's husband died of brain cancer leaving her big medical bills and two young kids to raise on a HS education. She never declared banko or borrowed a dime and paid off all the debts and paid of herself and her kid’s medical bills along with everything else that costs $$ in life, all by her little lonesome. She did it by foregoing life’s little pleasures , she walked or rode the bus and still does, makes all her own clothes always has, grows a garden and picks fruit and cans etc. Sounds like your bother liked the bottle and ate a high fat diet and earned his pancreatic the old fashioned way, life style choices. I have no problem paying for medical for those truly in need but not if they have and want life’s luxuries on the taxpayers back. And yes booze, a car and new store bought clothes are luxuries in every country in the world.