Going by the title- is this the right place? I would answer yes but I suggest it may still not be the right place for you, "member friendliness" is an oxymoron after all, particularly if you are new.


You just have to find a chair to call your own and sometimes that requires a little keyboard fisticuffs.


People here will come up with insults worse than calling YOU names: Boats, wives, moms, kids, cats... they are all fair game.
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In the legend of King Arthur, the Fisher King was a renowned angler whose errant ways caused him to be struck dumb in the presence of the sacred chalice. I am no great fisherman, and a steelhead is not the covenant of Christ, but with each of these fish I am rendered speechless.