Fly Guy: If I were young again, I'd hang out in the biology department at the local college (I assume Western has that program). Seem to be lots of nice, outdoorsy gals getting into that field, who should be great fly fisher candidates.
Weren't you looking for a job in a fly shop a while back? That has possibilities too, even if you have to "volunteer" as an "intern." Good luck!
p.s. Good point, above, about women who will "bait and switch." My ex "planted" a fly rod in her car when we were going to first meet. I was hooked, and found out too late that she didn't know which end to put the reel on!