Get your pencils ready, fire up the printer, and notify the press, because I'm going to let the world know what I think.
Point #1
I think in the abscence of body language, and immediate feedback, sometimes people come off more abrasive than ever intended. I won't name individuals because there were alot of guilty parties in this instance.
Point #2
Trying to redirect, or refocus someone elses attitude is a frightfully easy way to ensure you'll never warm a seat in their boat. If it is absolutely nescessary it should be done as gently and as politely as possible. I really try and always do those things by private message.
My Most Important Point...Which RVW actually acknowledged first!!!!!
" Milton is new and should be treated with due respect. "
There is really only one complaint about PP which I feel has merit; that old members often cannabilze newbies. Don't be eating the new guys. Hard enough to get the lurkers to post. Don't need to drive off the next 15 year old Herzog, or 12 year old Clancy, because they didn't understand some point of etiquette.
If we make the lurkers so uncomfy they don't post; then I'll be potentially missing out on some great new techniques, or chatting with someone who might offer me a seat for albies, or just a chance to learn whatever they have to offer. And since this really comes down to meeting MY needs, I think people should do what I say, dammit
Ok?
Ok, then this press conference is over.
VHawk