No offense intended.

Anyway, congrats and good luck.

COTR,

Having learned more of how your situation came to be, let me wish you the very best. Since you've only known your GF 2 months, don't be in any hurry to make long term decisions. From what you say it looks like you and the GF are doing what you should to protect your interests. Best of luck to you both, and congrats again on the concurrent parent/grandparent hood!

Sg

It can be difficult to divine the intent of what people write on the internet some of the time. It sounded to me like you were not into being a dad, so thanks for clearing things up. You are definitely taking the higher/harder road. I would not want to have to make the decisions you are facing. Good luck to you.