Bent over,if you are looking for "damn near perfect" you will likely be alone(without a woman) for the rest of your born days. My folks have been married for over 50 years. They married after having known each other 28 days . Talk about far from perfect. The other day my dad was yelling at my mom for talking over him while he was telling a story. He then proceeded to talk over her while telling as story! Love them.

They are imperfect,but their love is real,because they stuck it out when times were [Bleeeeep!],losing a business,having their oldest child living on the streets,my dad losing his best friend,mom wanting to escape from motherhood,being a wife,just being over it(she was married at 18 had me when she was 21).

I guess I'm just saying,when I started losing my false beliefs about life and unrealistic expectations of others and myself I was so much happier.


Also never get married