BW,

"Your responce was to slam them an call it a small minority, and say they could tell if a male was going to become an abusive husband."

Care to point out what I said? If thats a slam then so be it. I said there are very predicitive test that point to behavior types based on regressive analysis models. They can be admisistered by non professionals and results given and interpreted. Marriage and family counselors that are not PHd's use them so do many business and the military. Personality profiles have been widely used for 40 years.
Anyone getting married without one or several and a years worth of counseling is foolish IMHO.


Like is said you paint with too large of brush. and when someone gives an example of how you are not correct you just blow over it.

Blow it up is more like it.

":You know just for fun I had a conservitive friend here at work (who is also very highly educated) read your posts, and all he wanted to say was ....

"GET OFF MY SIDE" "

For some reason you and a few others here think that their is safety in numbers and that if more than 2 people here agree with you it makes you right and your point valid. Your point or lack of one stands on it's own merits or lack of . Have your highly intelligent conservative pal join the discussion if he wants to make a point.

My point stands that being a single mom is as preventable as aids. Refute it or walk.