thanks guys...the hubby and i went out for dinner...figured it would be eaiser to go out then to not trip over no dog in the kitchen ...we bought some carolyans (a irish cream) that was ryelees favorite...you have some of that and he would get pissed if he didnt get his own tiny bowl of some...figured we would both get good and drunk tonight...cancelled fishing tomorrow...we may just have to leave the house anyway...its to dang quiet hahaha...thanks for all the warm and fuzzy thoughts...it just sucks...im waiting for my hubby to really break down...maybe he has on his own but he wont tell me...it just sucks