Chuck......sounds really serious......and dangerous.
Maybe it's time for a "what if"

What if your wife gets an eye put out by this out-of-control kid? Is it going to matter who's at fault? Will ANYONE think it was worth it? Obviously your wife cares, but it also sounds like she is powerless to change this kid.....is it not better to work with receptive kids rather than waste time that could be used to help others in need?

tough deal, for sure.
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