read my second sentence Chuck...

Jake, constructive criticism is not beating the fvck out of someone each and every day, telling them how sh!tty they and everything they do is, calling them names, saying they arent as "good" as you (pride) at anything they or the other does, talking sh!t about their moms, GFs, other family members, laughing at them for the purpose of what? thats not constructive, thats destructive...

and you still havent beat me down... because you cant.. i already told you that...

you know something Jake, i mean sh!t, everyone here knows how i am... but ive heard the stories about you before you moved to Hawaii, i dont know if they are true and whatnot, but you got razzed by everyone for not having a GF and a job and sh!t...

i would have been the first one to defend your ass too if i was here, because its noones business what your personal life is... and its certianly nothing to make fun of because a person may or may not be struggling with something....

i defended YBD's bitch ass when he went on the bottle after his chick couldnt put up with his drunken stupidity, and look where that one got me

point is, just mind your own business if you wouldnt want the same to be happening to you... (karma)