Good luck my friend. I went through this with my wife, and yes, I did take her to Mexico. She eventually divorced me and yes fishing was part of the problem. I finally had to admit I have a sickness - that's what fishing is - a sickness and now I can be as sick as I want. My wife and I are still great friends and she still gets me a Cabella's gift certificate for Christmas. Oh, and one other thing, when we were in counseling the counselor likened my fishing to having a mistress - that really helped. I wish you the best.