Its easy to say what you would do. Its another matter to actaully do it. For one thing, anyone who actually knows me can tell ya I'm nobodys pussy. At the same time, things escalate fast when feelings are running high. Is it a good idea to punch your kid in the house and start a full on free for all ??? I would have to get pretty nasty to whip this kid, and its more knowing that it would hurt my feelings more knowing I did that for the rest of my life than it would if he kicked my ass.

You know, I left home on bad terms with my old man. I went away and found out I didn't know dick about anything. I was a a-hole I admit and I caused alot of problems at home. When I came back ( from the service) I treated him differently and we get along. Now he is all messed up and I take care of the problems. Its my job. I think maybe time with fix this.

He told me awhile ago that he " needed to find himself".. I told him " You find out about other people, you create yourself ". Long and short of it is, he will come around, and I know he is feeling like a major dick these days.

The 15 year old ??? thats moms problem. She created it she can fix it. I'll still be nice whenever she lets me.