Hey, thanks for all of the responses...geez there were a lot. But it is a popular topic (marriage and level of satisfaction). As of today I am still married and need not continue to throw my wife under the bus without her being able to defend herself.
As you all know I am a regular on this site and marital status in the coming months or years can be determined then.

Thanks for all of the serious responses and I will continue to sift through them and re read them.

I like the idea of "fighting for my marriage"..so at this time that is what I plan to do.

This is another reason why I love this site. Thanks