Proud of you, Oregonian. My son's wife is a stay at home mom. And I'm thankful. Much of the trouble in the ranks of the young comes from not having a parent at home. Nobody there for them when it counts.
BTW the cliche about " A house is not a home" is accurate.

Your right on Aunty M., Civility kills. Like the media's preference for doom, gloom, and blood. You gotta create hate and discontent to make a thread thrive. Some can and some can't, Ichy'rhoid for example.