it's both parents obligation to care for the children, part of that care is ensuring there is enough money to pay for the necessities. Not every family has that luxury, and it is not completely in their control or their fault. If you had ever lived a hard day in your life and had some character you would be able to understand that. But, you've obviously been spoon fed most of your life and taught that people lesser than yourself don't deserve a helping hand to bring them out of their dire situation.